She used the words as a form of healing to express her growth over the years over what many would consider a very challenging life. She wrote all the funny dating stories initially with the idea to publish a book that might make people smile at the ridiculousness of modern dating.

Then she started on the harder stuff. The heartbreak. The loss. The shame. She added in all the bits a woman doesn’t even tell herself let alone a computer screen. The search was on. And it was extensive. Kris was determined to find this allusive man she had been dreaming of for years and years. She lifted every single rock and said yes to every single experience along the way. What did she find?

Well, that’s the point of the story isn’t it.